Showing Confidence – Builds Confidence

People are attracted to confidence because it provides, for them, an easy answer.  People are lazy.  People think of ways to make anything easier.  What is the easiest way to say International Business Machines, IBM.  By flowing a confident person so many questions are answered for you.  What to ware what to eat or who to like, following others provides answers.  Be the one they falow by showing confidence

Your perception of yourself has an enormous impact on how others perceive you.  Perception is reality — you Will Succeed.

Self Confidence

1. Dress Sharp

No one is more conscious of your physical appearance than you are.  It changes the way you carry yourself.  Dress the way you want to be, being wil fallow.

2. Walk Faster

One of the easiest ways to tell how a person feels about them self is to examine their walk.  Is it slow?  Tired?  Painful?  Or is it energetic and purposeful?  People with confidence walk quickly.  They have places to go, people to see, and important things to do.  Even if you are not in a hurry, you can increase your self confidence by putting some pep in your step. Walking 25% faster will make to you look and feel more important.

3. Good Posture

The way a person carries themselves tells a story.  By practicing good posture, you’ll automatically feel more confident.  Stand up straight.  Keep your head up.  Make eye contact.

4. Personal Commercial

Creating a personal commercial.  Write a 30-60 second speech that highlights your strengths and goals.  Recit it to you self.  Practice it every day.  Recite it wherever you go.  When some one asks about you, Tell Them!

5. Gratitude

Thank every one around you.  Thank them every day.  Don’t just focus on what you want.  Focus on gratitude for what you have each day.  Recall your successes, your skills, your momentum, how much you have going for you.

6. Compliment other people

Get in the habit of praising other people.  Make an effort to compliment those around you.  Looking for the best in others will bring out the best in yourself.

7. Sit in the front row

Be more visible.  Important people talk from the front of the room.

8. Speak up

By speaking up, you’ll become a better speaker, more confident in your own thoughts, and recognized as a leader.

9. Workout

Physical fitness has a huge effect on self confidence.  You’ll feel secure, attractive, and energetic.  By working out, you accomplish something positive.  Build discipline, feel better, create momentum.

10. Focus on contribution

Focus on the needs of others.  Concentrate on the contribution you’re making.  The more you contribute the more you’ll be rewarded.


Need for Conformation

We feel a need for others to give us conformation of who we are or what we are.  We seek out that conformation form others.

If there are more then one or two other people then satisfying all of them can become impossible as they may all want something different.

You have to take care of yourself.  “I will be myself and let other expect that.”

Trust your own guidance.  Be where and what you are.  Let others fallow you and know to expect that.

Self Confidence

Build a better you.

Do you worry about what other people think about you? Or do you worry about what you think other people think about you?

So what you really worry about is what you think!

“I worry about what I think they are thinking about me”
So what we are really talking about is what your thinking.

To show confidence, to be confident, we need to set our own tone.  Get your energy flowing your momentum.

Walk in to a room you can adopt the tone in the room, you are affected by what other people are putting out.

If you walk in to a room with your own tone you can set the room to fallow you.

You are either setting goals of you own or you are adopting goals of others around you.

I will live my life with my energy flowing.  If I come in to a situation where the flow is not my path I can reclaim my tone and follow my own path.

What you really want, is your desire.

Finding Your Passion

Ted talk on bad careers thsi talk is only so so but the point is excelent.

Do you want to work really really hard?  That will not give you a grate career.

If you find an interest that is not enough.  You may have 20 interests.

What are you passionate about.  What will you do for the love of doing.

Don’t be afraid of your dream.  Don’t be afraid of failing.  Don’t be afraid of any thing.

Go For It Kid!

How To Succeed In Life Without Really Trying


  • Always Smile

People Smile when they see a smile.  People are like to Happy People.  Smiling releases endorphins and makes you happy

  • Remember Names

The sweetest sound, to any body, is the sound of their own name.  It Makes them feel important.

  • Listen to Others

Everyone has a story to tell.  Every one has something to say.   Every one wants an audience.  Listen to their stories and advice and they will love you for it.

  • Suggest, Don’t Tell

People like to make their own decisions.  Telling some one what to do only builds resentment and distrust.  Although every one likes decisions to be made for them, “just tell me what to do” they want to feel as if they decided to do it.

  • Get a Job

The Easiest Way to make a lot of money is to let some one pay you for your time.  The Best Job – Secretary.  A secretary can leave at the end of the day and dose not take work home.  The work is generally indoors at a desk and often provides variation and even some challenges.  Remember this is, not the easiest way to get rich, just to get a lot of money.

A Great Life